Follow, Lead, or Somewhere In-between

Am I a leader or a follower? That straightforward question has multiple layers of answers. I am a follower of Christ first and foremost. I follow my husband but I lead my children. I do not follow trends or the latest fashion but I do follow local news and current happenings. I follow the rules and laws of my county. And on occasion I do lead myself into a bad decisions from time to time. I suppose the question needs more detail as my answer depends heavily on the subject matter.