II Samuel  3:19 to 4:12, In-depth Study

Welcome back to another in-depth Bible study. May you have listening ears and eyes that see. Join me as we dive into Father’s word.

II Samuel 3:19

19 And Abner also spake in the ears of Benjamin: and Abner went also to speak in the ears of David in Hebron all that seemed good to Israel, and that seemed good to the whole house of Benjamin.

20 So Abner came to David to Hebron, and twenty men with him. And David made Abner and the men that were with him a feast.

21 And Abner said unto David, I will arise and go, and will gather all Israel unto my lord the king, that they may make a league with thee, and that thou mayest reign over all that thine heart desireth. And David sent Abner away; and he went in peace.

22 And, behold, the servants of David and Joab came from pursuing a troop, and brought in a great spoil with them: but Abner was not with David in Hebron; for he had sent him away, and he was gone in peace.

23 When Joab and all the host that was with him were come, they told Joab, saying, Abner the son of Ner came to the king, and he hath sent him away, and he is gone in peace.

24 Then Joab came to the king, and said, What hast thou done? behold, Abner came unto thee; why is it that thou hast sent him away, and he is quite gone?

25 Thou knowest Abner the son of Ner, that he came to deceive thee, and to know thy going out and thy coming in, and to know all that thou doest.

26 And when Joab was come out from David, he sent messengers after Abner, which brought him again from the well of Sirah: but David knew it not.

27 And when Abner was returned to Hebron, Joab took him aside in the gate to speak with him quietly, and smote him there under the fifth rib, that he died, for the blood of Asahel his brother.

28 And afterward when David heard it, he said, I and my kingdom are guiltless before the LORD for ever from the blood of Abner the son of Ner:

29 Let it rest on the head of Joab, and on all his father’s house; and let there not fail from the house of Joab one that hath an issue, or that is a leper, or that leaneth on a staff, or that falleth on the sword, or that lacketh bread.

30 So Joab and Abishai his brother slew Abner, because he had slain their brother Asahel at Gibeon in the battle.

31 And David said to Joab, and to all the people that were with him, Rend your clothes, and gird you with sackcloth, and mourn before Abner. And king David himself followed the bier.

32 And they buried Abner in Hebron: and the king lifted up his voice, and wept at the grave of Abner; and all the people wept.

33 And the king lamented over Abner, and said, Died Abner as a fool dieth?

34 Thy hands were not bound, nor thy feet put into fetters: as a man falleth before wicked men, so fellest thou. And all the people wept again over him.

35 And when all the people came to cause David to eat meat while it was yet day, David sware, saying, So do God to me, and more also, if I taste bread, or ought else, till the sun be down.

36 And all the people took notice of it, and it pleased them: as whatsoever the king did pleased all the people.

37 For all the people and all Israel understood that day that it was not of the king to slay Abner the son of Ner.

38 And the king said unto his servants, Know ye not that there is a prince and a great man fallen this day in Israel?

39 And I am this day weak, though anointed king; and these men the sons of Zeruiah be too hard for me: the LORD shall reward the doer of evil according to his wickedness.

II Samuel 4
1 And when Saul’s son heard that Abner was dead in Hebron, his hands were feeble, and all the Israelites were troubled.

2 And Saul’s son had two men that were captains of bands: the name of the one was Baanah, and the name of the other Rechab, the sons of Rimmon a Beerothite, of the children of Benjamin: (for Beeroth also was reckoned to Benjamin:

3 And the Beerothites fled to Gittaim, and were sojourners there until this day.)

4 And Jonathan, Saul’s son, had a son that was lame of his feet. He was five years old when the tidings came of Saul and Jonathan out of Jezreel, and his nurse took him up, and fled: and it came to pass, as she made haste to flee, that he fell, and became lame. And his name was Mephibosheth.

5 And the sons of Rimmon the Beerothite, Rechab and Baanah, went, and came about the heat of the day to the house of Ishbosheth, who lay on a bed at noon.

6 And they came thither into the midst of the house, as though they would have fetched wheat; and they smote him under the fifth rib: and Rechab and Baanah his brother escaped.

7 For when they came into the house, he lay on his bed in his bedchamber, and they smote him, and slew him, and beheaded him, and took his head, and gat them away through the plain all night.

8 And they brought the head of Ishbosheth unto David to Hebron, and said to the king, Behold the head of Ishbosheth the son of Saul thine enemy, which sought thy life; and the LORD hath avenged my lord the king this day of Saul, and of his seed.

9 And David answered Rechab and Baanah his brother, the sons of Rimmon the Beerothite, and said unto them, As the LORD liveth, who hath redeemed my soul out of all adversity,

10 When one told me, saying, Behold, Saul is dead, thinking to have brought good tidings, I took hold of him, and slew him in Ziklag, who thought that I would have given him a reward for his tidings:

11 How much more, when wicked men have slain a righteous person in his own house upon his bed? shall I not therefore now require his blood of your hand, and take you away from the earth?

12 And David commanded his young men, and they slew them, and cut off their hands and their feet, and hanged them up over the pool in Hebron. But they took the head of Ishbosheth, and buried it in the sepulchre of Abner in Hebron.


That concludes our lesson for today. Come back tomorrow as we continue right along in the Bible. Have a great day and God bless!

The Never Ending List

The Importance of not losing yourself as a mother is crucial to raising well equipped children. As a mother it is easy to over extend yourself. Someone is always needing something and something is always needing done. However, as mothers we need to prioritize ourselves from time to time. Knowing this, I still have a hard time putting that into practice. I will pour and pour until my cup is completely empty, and then somehow still manage to pour more. I let mom guilt convince me I need to do more and be more, until I am beyond exhausted.

That mindset can be detrimental to a person’s mental health and well-being. Not only will it leave you feeling depleted and underappreciated, it will also take a toll on your body. It affects your mood, your energy levels, it depletes your body’s dopamine. Eventually this leads to having little patience and struggling just to maintain everyday routines. You become irritable and snappy, constantly wearing a flat line instead of a smile. Once the parents become stressed and uptight, it usually resonates through the household. The children mimic the personalities of their parents.

A mother who constantly over gives slowly gives pieces of herself away until only a shell remains. She will forget the small things that make her heart sing. She will forget what makes her unique. She will forget who she is outside of motherhood. The woman that lives inside her will cease to exist, possibly never to be found again. It is our duty to maintain a sense of self so our children will also. It is our job to cater to the little girl inside of us and give her attention as well.

So if you are a mother reading this, for starters, good job and keep reading, it is a great outlet. Also, I want you to know that the dishes can wait, it doesn’t matter that they have been sitting there since yesterday. The laundry already smells funny in the washer, you can restart it later. The toys strung all over the living room can lay there a little longer. Go do something you want to do. You’re not getting any younger and you don’t want your whole life to be a series of events of everyone else coming first.

You can not burn a rope from both ends and not expect failure. You can not continue to bend and not expect to break. You can not continue to pour from an empty cup without consequence. By denying yourself simple pleasures you are robbing yourself of happiness. Not to mention the standards that are being set for your children. Would you want them to create the same type of family dynamic for themselves?

I can guarantee everyone will be a lot happier and more content if you would take a moment for yourself everyday. Even if it’s just five minutes, do something that brings joy to your heart. Read a book, draw a picture, write something, start a puzzle, try that recipe you saw online. Put earmuffs on and lock yourself in a room for a moment of silence. Whatever, just as long as it brings you joy, do it.

It is never too late to learn something new or start a new hobby. Don’t be afraid to be a beginner at something. We must teach our children how to rest and just be. We do not have to fill every moment with an activity. We don’t have to stay busy constantly. The dishes can wait, the kids can wait, dinner can be just a few minutes behind. Take a moment for yourself and just breathe. If not, you’re going to dig yourself an early grave and then you will be forced to rest. Start today, start right now. Until you make a conscious effort to make it a habit you will continue to place yourself at the bottom of the list. A list that never quite gets completed.

II Samuel  2:17 to 3:18, In-depth Study

Welcome back to another in-depth Bible study.Let’s dive into God’s Word together, seeking understanding and insight. May His spirit guide us as we explore Scripture.

II Samuel 2:17

17 And there was a very sore battle that day; and Abner was beaten, and the men of Israel, before the servants of David.

18 And there were three sons of Zeruiah there, Joab, and Abishai, and Asahel: and Asahel was as light of foot as a wild roe.

19 And Asahel pursued after Abner; and in going he turned not to the right hand nor to the left from following Abner.

20 Then Abner looked behind him, and said, Art thou Asahel? And he answered, I am.

21 And Abner said to him, Turn thee aside to thy right hand or to thy left, and lay thee hold on one of the young men, and take thee his armour. But Asahel would not turn aside from following of him.

22 And Abner said again to Asahel, Turn thee aside from following me: wherefore should I smite thee to the ground? how then should I hold up my face to Joab thy brother?

23 Howbeit he refused to turn aside: wherefore Abner with the hinder end of the spear smote him under the fifth rib, that the spear came out behind him; and he fell down there, and died in the same place: and it came to pass, that as many as came to the place where Asahel fell down and died stood still.

24 Joab also and Abishai pursued after Abner: and the sun went down when they were come to the hill of Ammah, that lieth before Giah by the way of the wilderness of Gibeon.

25 And the children of Benjamin gathered themselves together after Abner, and became one troop, and stood on the top of an hill.

26 Then Abner called to Joab, and said, Shall the sword devour for ever? knowest thou not that it will be bitterness in the latter end? how long shall it be then, ere thou bid the people return from following their brethren?

27 And Joab said, As God liveth, unless thou hadst spoken, surely then in the morning the people had gone up every one from following his brother.

28 So Joab blew a trumpet, and all the people stood still, and pursued after Israel no more, neither fought they any more.

29 And Abner and his men walked all that night through the plain, and passed over Jordan, and went through all Bithron, and they came to Mahanaim.

30 And Joab returned from following Abner: and when he had gathered all the people together, there lacked of David’s servants nineteen men and Asahel.

31 But the servants of David had smitten of Benjamin, and of Abner’s men, so that three hundred and threescore men died.

32 And they took up Asahel, and buried him in the sepulchre of his father, which was in Bethlehem. And Joab and his men went all night, and they came to Hebron at break of day.

II Samuel 3
1 Now there was long war between the house of Saul and the house of David: but David waxed stronger and stronger, and the house of Saul waxed weaker and weaker.

2 And unto David were sons born in Hebron: and his firstborn was Amnon, of Ahinoam the Jezreelitess;

3 And his second, Chileab, of Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite; and the third, Absalom the son of Maacah the daughter of Talmai king of Geshur;

4 And the fourth, Adonijah the son of Haggith; and the fifth, Shephatiah the son of Abital;

5 And the sixth, Ithream, by Eglah David’s wife. These were born to David in Hebron.

6 And it came to pass, while there was war between the house of Saul and the house of David, that Abner made himself strong for the house of Saul.

7 And Saul had a concubine, whose name was Rizpah, the daughter of Aiah: and Ishbosheth said to Abner, Wherefore hast thou gone in unto my father’s concubine?

8 Then was Abner very wroth for the words of Ishbosheth, and said, Am I a dog’s head, which against Judah do shew kindness this day unto the house of Saul thy father, to his brethren, and to his friends, and have not delivered thee into the hand of David, that thou chargest me to day with a fault concerning this woman?

9 So do God to Abner, and more also, except, as the LORD hath sworn to David, even so I do to him;

10 To translate the kingdom from the house of Saul, and to set up the throne of David over Israel and over Judah, from Dan even to Beersheba.

11 And he could not answer Abner a word again, because he feared him.

12 And Abner sent messengers to David on his behalf, saying, Whose is the land? saying also, Make thy league with me, and, behold, my hand shall be with thee, to bring about all Israel unto thee.

13 And he said, Well; I will make a league with thee: but one thing I require of thee, that is, Thou shalt not see my face, except thou first bring Michal Saul’s daughter, when thou comest to see my face.

14 And David sent messengers to Ishbosheth Saul’s son, saying, Deliver me my wife Michal, which I espoused to me for an hundred foreskins of the Philistines.

15 And Ishbosheth sent, and took her from her husband, even from Phaltiel the son of Laish.

16 And her husband went with her along weeping behind her to Bahurim. Then said Abner unto him, Go, return. And he returned.

17 And Abner had communication with the elders of Israel, saying, Ye sought for David in times past to be king over you:

18 Now then do it: for the LORD hath spoken of David, saying, By the hand of my servant David I will save my people Israel out of the hand of the Philistines, and out of the hand of all their enemies.


That concludes our lesson for today. Come back tomorrow as we continue right along in the Bible. Have a great day and God bless!

Growing Closer to God One Verse at a Time.



Understanding the Bible in such a way that it brings a closer connection with God is easier than one might think. Too often today, we as Christians only hear God’s word. We don’t actively read it for ourselves. Or when we do read, we are reading it with a narrative already driving the interpretation. I feel this approach hinders potential growth. What if we read without all those hindering pretenses?


Psalm 119:105 KJV tells us  “ Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.”
Joshua 1:8 KJV says “This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.”


1 Peter 2:2 KJV
2 As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may growthereby:

Psalm 119:18 KJV
Open thou mine eyes, that I may behold wondrous things out of thy law.


2 Timothy 2:14
14 Of these things put them in remembrance, charging them before the Lord that they strive not about words to no profit, but to the subverting of the hearers.

2 Timothy 2:15
15 Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.




We should study the Bible in a way that builds an unshakable foundation.The best way to do this is to read with intent. First, start by praying for God’s wisdom to fall upon you. Ask that only His intended message is  received.Then, find a trustworthy study bible. I use the Companion Bible by Kregell Publications along with a Strong Exhaustive  Concordance by James Strong. Together  these books offer a wealth of information and reference points. These tools allow any reader to take every word back to the original languages. By doing so, the reader gains a deeper and more meaningful connection to each verse. It is crucial today to have a strong foundation and a wisdom filled faith. These aspects cannot be obtained by simply listening to sermons. It takes a conscious effort to study the Bible to gain knowledge and understanding. Then, when questions about God’s word arise, as they naturally do, pray about it and seek the Bible for answers. God’s living words speaks to us, but we must first open it to hear it.

Matthew 6:33 says “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” What better way to seek His kingdom than to read His word. Oftentimes, you will find that God gives you the answer in one form or another. If at that point an answer is unfound, then seek pastoral counsel.




John 1:1 tell us, 
“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”




How incredibly important God’s word must be if it was with Him all the way back in the beginning. Think about this for a moment, the Bible, a direct continual link to God, providing answers, guidance and correction to all of His children who will read it.  Yet the majority of the time it sits on a shelf. A commodity such as that is more precious than any other riches this world has to offer, if you ask me. But even I don’t hold the Bible with the regard I should.


Maybe we take for granted how special the Bible truly is. Maybe the bible has become such a habitual part of life that it has almost been reduced to nothing more than a chore.


It doesn’t matter if you have read it once or a hundred times, next time you pick up your bible, read it with intent!

Priorities

I want to give a short sincere apology to my readers who follow my Bible studies. Recently, a series of events caused me to reprioritize my time. Unfortunately, my blog fell to the bottom of that list. I will continue the in-depth study tomorrow. I am trying to focus more on quality rather than quantity as we continue to study the Bible together. I have a great article set to publish tomorrow about what God says about reading your Bible. I think the message will resonate deeply. I apologize again for my delayed posts. Thank each and every one of you who stop by my blog. And a special thanks to those who follow dillegently.

Heave a great day and God bless!

The Love That Never Ends

What was your favorite subject in school?

What was my favorite subjects in school? Language Arts and Reading of corse! Math was my down fall and I throughly hated it. History was boring, now I know mostly filled with false histories. Science was okay, but not my favorite. Music, Art, and gym fall into a similar category. Except library days!!! Those were the greatest. Oh the simple times of life. I have little to no desire to return.

Zero, Zilch, Nada

What podcasts are you listening to?

What podcasts am I listening to? None. I was listening to “Your Brain on Facts” with Moxy but sadly due to her health she has stopped producing episodes. Her podcast was always fun, exciting and highly informative. Where ever she is, I hope she’s doing well.

The One and Only

What are your favorite websites?

What are my favorite websites? First and foremost would be MY website. I have came a long way in a little bit of time. I look back and can see tenacity and determination. I see a women who refused to fail because failure isn’t an option. I see hard work and God’s ober flowing blessing. I look back and see God’s guidance every step of the way.

I also enjoy other website but I wanted to toot my own horn for a moment.

Newest, Latest, Greatest

Name the most expensive personal item you’ve ever purchased (not your home or car).

Name the most expensive personal item I’ve ever purchased.

I am not one to stay up with the newest technology. For years I was content with the most modest forms of computers and cell phones. Why do I need all those fancy bells and whistles? Then I was persuaded by my husband to purchase one of the lastest smart phones. I had smart phone in the past but the Samsung Galaxy s25 Ultra is by far the best phone I have ever used. I am and always will be partial to android, no argument will ever sway me other wise.

The s25 Ultra is perfect size with a large display. High memory, high processor and a camera that will knock your socks off. The split and mulit-screen functions make multitasking a breeze. Add in the stylus that allows for quick note taking and instantly you can streamline any writing process. I could go one and one about this phone but I’m not trying to do a product review today. If you like Android and it is in your budget, buy one. You will not regret it!

Future Endeavors

What will your life be like in three years?

What will my life be like in three years?

I will be older, wiser and flowing in God’s blessing. I suspect I will still be somewhere with a pen in my hand and a fire for the in my heart. I will likely be still working my current jobs surround my wonderful family.

What will you be doing the three year? Or maybe 5.

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